Body Detoxification, Cleansing, Health

Hi,
Im in need of some advice/education.
Me and my girl have been together for almost 6 months now, we have a long distance relationship because we live in different countries, which is going great and isnt an issue because we meet and im moving there in a few months.

Now i live in a country where MJ is legal to smoke and i’ve been raised around it.
My friends smoke(d) and i never had a real problem with it as im open minded about it by nature and i was raised that way.

Now here is the “problem” my GF recently started smoking weed again (she recently told me she did it when she was younger along with other stuff) and been doing it more frequently, she smokes together with her flatmates just for fun and to feel good.
However a few days ago she did it and got sick because of it and told me she probably wont do it again.

Until tonight, She called me and told me she was soooo high, and she smoked because her and her mates were bored, then she goes on how much she loves it and so on.

We have talked about it and honestly i am open minded, i tried it once myself, i liked it at first, it made me happy, but then it turned into a little nightmare as i started to get really cold and couldnt stop shaking, i felt my fingers,hands, arms, body and head become numb and was about to black out, i started to panic about it, i wasnt alone and my friend who introduced me to it comforted me and i felt a bit better, however i kept feeling a bit shaky and panicky until i fell asleep when i woke up i still felt a bit woozy but could function properly and went home to bed.

I might want to add that when i smoked i worked for 10 hours straight without any breaks, and i hadnt eaten much either, plus i had some beers prior to it so i also was a bit drunk.

Anyway back to my GF, i have seen people around me that smoke weed on a daily base and eventually get addicted to something, ive heard weed cant make you physically addicted but you can get mentally addicted to it.
But basicly i’ve seen those people throw their lives away, they ruined their relationships, their careers, their social lives and just live on welfare getting their fix and do nothing else.

Now i love my GF to death, and she loves me just as much , but i am terrified she might end up the same as those other people, i have explained this to her when she was sober and she assured me that nothing bad is going to happen, and that she won’t let herself get addicted to it and that she is well aware of what she is doing.
Yet i am still scared, especially after tonight when she was high and just told me how much she loved the high and weed.

She doesnt smoke everyday (as far as i know) and she currently in Uni and really wants a career and a future together with me.

I will never ask her to stop smoking for me, because i can’t do that, it’s her life and she should do whatever she wants to do, but i have this worry in my head that when i move closer to her she has become like those other people that i have mentioned, and i dont think i can build a future with someone who doesnt want to work or anything but just smoke.

I hope i have explained my situation a bit and i would really have some advice/education about it.
Not only about my GF but also about my perosnal experiences with weed….i really want to do it again because the initial feeling was great, i havent felt that good in a while, but the part that came after it was just scary and i dont really want that feeling back :p

Anyway, i hope you guys can help me out a bit, i would love to smoke together with her, because like i said i am open minded about it, and maybe if i get in the same situation as her i might feel alot better and assured about it.
It’s just i do not want to lose her for anything, if she wants to smoke it on a daily base i am fine with it as long as she still functions in society like any other person.

I probably know some of the answers, like how good do i know my gf to know that she wont turn out like what i am afraid she would turn out to, i do trust her, and i beleive it when she says she is aware of it all.
It just been in my head for a while and i worry about it and i’d like to easy my mind about it.

This turned out into quite a post, hope you will find the time to read all of it
But to sum it up:
-Will my second time be like my first time?
-And am i too paranoid about my GF smoking it?
-Also, i dont beleive what the goverment says about weed, in my country its legal but the majority of the people still consider it as a slight taboo, i think that its mostly a personal thing, are you easily addicted to stuff or how is your own self awareness and control.
Like i said i know my GF and i trust her, but i just have this thing in my head that weed can change people completly.

Thanks for any replies